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Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Communication or Isolation?

I often wonder what many of the innovators of communication technology were thinking as they laid the groundwork for the World Wide Web or tackled the complexities of wireless communication. Today it seems that entire existences are built around the Internet. The way we communicate with each other has seemingly resorted to how we communicate at each other
I remember hearing of the World Wide Web back in the early 1990's. It seems as if it has been around for ever, but no. In 1999 I moved into an apartment on Dixwell Avenue in New Haven. I had been living with a friend of mine for several months and was overjoyed to have my own place again. At the top of my wish list was an exercise bike and a computer. I never owned owned a a computer, but I had taken a class in high school. I used computers in school and at the library, so I was familiar with the importance of computing. I was also painfully aware of the debate raging between the "haves" and the " have nots" that most poor people could not afford the Internet and/or a home computer. By not having the find of access to the information and opportunities that the World Wide Web presented only broadened the economic divide.
People like Bill Gates and Steve Jobs worked diligently to change this. At the time, the cost of a personal computer was about $1,000 and Internet access was a dial up modem which was about $50 a month. This was out of reach for me and most everyone else I knew, so as soon as I could, I rented one, Ah, the golden age of Colortyme! The ability to buy what ever your heart desired from appliances to furniture to electronics for a "low monthly payment." I knew it was paying almost double, but to me me it was worth it to me to have access to the world. My first computer was a Compaq Presario with all the bells and whistles; Microsoft platform, AOL web and email. I loved it! I remember the day the Colortyme man came to and set up my computer like it was yesterday. I used it mainly for exploring the Internet and word processing. It would be a couple of years before I set up an email account. My dive into the seas of online communication was done one foot at a time.
I remember when cellphones first came out. They were big and bulky and were carried in a case. No one I knew had one because they were so expensive. Cellphones, like personal computers and cocaine were only afforded by the rather well to do. Pagers came shortly thereafter. I had only seen those on television in doctor shows. I remember getting my first pager. I still have it. I never know when I might need it. It seems like so long ago. I would pay my bill at my favorite pawn shop and I felt like I was really connected! It would be at least a couple of years before I go my first cellphone. By now they were portable, no case, no wires and they fit in the pocketbook. the deposit was outrageous. Most companies wanted $100 to $300 up front and a mandatory 2 year contract. I thought this was ridiculous and opted to stay with my pager. I was approached constantly by well meaning sales people. I was not that interested. Until one day I was entering Sam's Club and a man approached me and assured me that he
could get me a cell phone for a $50 deposit. I was skeptical. I told him "If you can do it, I'll sign up." I left him with my license to run my credit and I went shopping. By the time I was done, the salesman had secured me a cell phone. It has been several years since that fateful day and I am now considered a valued customer of T-Mobile with unlimited minutes.
Now,  everyone has a cellphone. I got my 11 year old son his first cellphone when he was 8. Needless to say, that was a bad idea because he wasn't responsible enough to take care of it. While he is able to manage a Smart phone like a pro, he still leaves his phone in his pants. Today I consider myself a veteran of the "computer age" and I maneuver the Internet with ease. I multimanage several on line email, website and social networking accounts; Reverb Nation, Facebook, Yahoo, my website; www.d-o-music.com,  my blog; www.thedigitaloverdose.blogspot.com, my video station DivaShadow on Youtube and a host of sites that I visit regularly. I also search for and research the latest and greatest tricks and tools to promote Indie music, videos and artists.
In spite of all this outreach, I don't feel more connected to other people. While the Internet is vast and never tires of activity, it lacks the immediate, personal touch of another human being. Even with the addition of Skype and Cisco. I do not wait with baited breath for emails, texts or tweets. Nor have I set up a Twitter account. I actually struggle to keep up with all the Spam and often unrelated conversations that take place on Facebook continuously. I check my email for specific things. I post to Facebook for specific reasons; to promote a show, sell something or to find someone. I don't play with Farm Animals  or answer questions about other friends. Occasionally I send hugs, but I generally don't engage in discussions on line. I prefer to talk to people in person or on the phone, I prefer the intimacy of a human voice, the look on someone's face or the sound of their laughter. I think that communication technology is extremely beneficial in how we function, communicate, do business and learn. It can enrich us or deplete us; free us or enslave us. Communication technology is meant to enhance our ability to communicate, not to replace the ways we communicate. It is a choice, not a requirement of communication. When we lose sight of what communication technology is, we can easily lose touch with what we are.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Lets Never Forget!

Friday, June 17, 2011

How to Stay Positive Around Negative People or How to Stay Focused in Pursuing Your Dreams When Other Friends Try To Stiffle Your Success.

Life is a trip. Literally life is a journey and full of people, places and things that often mold us into seemingly invincible beings or grind us into pieces and leave us as road kill on the highway of humanity. More often then not we end up somewhere in between: existing from day to day hoping that ship will come in but not really sure if we want to take the ride. So we go through each day doing the daily grind and settling for a quiet, meagar existence. If you fall in the middle of the human race, this article is probably not for you.
For those who take each breath like it was their last and lives to love and love to live. For those who don't wait for opportunity to knock, but choose to kick the door in and grab opportunity by the neck and squeeze it bone dry. You may feel alone or certainly lonely. They say "its lonely at the top". This has never been a truer statement. Humans are innately driven and everyone wants something different. Individuals are unique. Each level of desire is valid in relation to the individual who seeks them. Sometimes we find ourselves having one level of desire, while those around us have a different level of desire. These differences can manifest themselves in a variety of ways; sometimes obviously and sometimes more subtle.
You reach a point in your life where you are striving to reach a particular goal or existence and you notice that your circle of support starts to wain. Friends say "Why do you want to do that?" "You shouldn't do that." "You can't do that." "So you think you are better than me." "Thats not practical." Why can't you be more like...?" People are instinctively jealous. We are designed with a wide range of emotions; love, generosity, optimism, anger, fear and jealous to name a few. We can't help it. We are born this way. Sometimes when others appear to have what we want or more than what we have we can become jealous, envious, feeling like why should they have something that we wanted so badly, but did none of the work to get it or from our view, it was just handed to them. While we work our butts off and still can't get what we want. We often justify our feelings  so we can act out. There are also those of us who realize that it rains on everyone and its not what happens to us, but how we deal with it.
Everyone has the ability to be the best they can be. The trick is to make the most of the life you have or to make excuses about why your life is not all you want it to be. It is important to associate ourselves with like minded individuals and for you to be the light you want to see in others and eventually the whole world will be a little brighter. Love, Peace and Happiness, Shadow